Give thanks for the MAGIC in your Licensed for Life ### 37 days of the LOVE FEAST remaining this year. And I got another dose of clarity that my ability to love Tananarive 100% is based on how fully I commit to protecting my child. If Little Stevie knows that…

"You’ll have to work twice as hard to get half as far.” Like a lot of black kids, I heard this from my Mom, and believed it. For the record, there are other oppressive and damaging factors involving physical and mental and social existence, so if you heard this too…

“Don’t bother practicing martial arts. I know people who did, and they still lost fights.” “Traditional martial arts don’t work. Try MMA.” “Don’t carry a knife…it can be taken away from you.” “Don’t fight back against a bully. You’ll just get hurt worse.” “Don’t resist the invader. …

The Ancient Child and Energy I remember when I was discussing health and energy with Sifu Carl Totton. I mentioned that I visualized myself as 120 years old and still healthy. He suggested the opposite: to embrace the CHILD self instead. And it seems to make sense to me. The…

I have seven days to break the “Star Wars” novel. That means creating a full rough draft, however rough, where I can feel all the story and character arcs. The rest is just “chop wood, carry water.” And I can do it, too. We are 44 days to deliver the…

I totally violated my relationship with my “child” back in the 1980s. Ask me about “Friday the 13th” sometime, or “Purple Heart.” Another time. But the point is that due to a poor decision I was cut off from the child aspect. This manifested as disruptions of 1)Joy Creativity Energy …

Its fun to shift between models. Looking at the Child-Adult-Elder balance, the Male-Female balance, and examining your issues through that framework is SCARY powerful. 5MM. Breath and Heartbeat MR MAGIC and 1% Ancient Child (Child-Adult-Elder) Three Gates That would be nice. Very nice. …

“A lot of people say that the person who goes through it all changes, but I don’ tthink that’s true. I think its everyone else who changes, because they expect certain things from you and they’ll approach you in a different manner” — Prince Rogers Nelson. The clearest adult-child split…

The point (IMO) of the 90-Day Love Feast (focusing totally on the partner’s needs and desires for 90 days) is for the individual to take responsibility for his emotions and experience of life. The result is that the partner has the space to take a deep breath. When people feel…