Does Your Mate Say: “Ugh. Is that the best I could do?”

Steven Barnes
6 min readFeb 3, 2021

The Lifewriting approach to relationships is called the “Soulmate Process” and that requires definitions. For the sake of our discussion, a “Soulmate” is a person who, when you meet them you feel the kind of connection that opens the door to your future. You can see and experience the potential of a life together, and it is like meeting the other half of yourself.

How common are Soulmates? I’d be cautious in estimating, but if I consider that two people who have been married long enough to have grandchildren, who still love each other…

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Steven Barnes

Steven Barnes is a NY Times bestselling author, ecstatic husband and father, and holder of black belts in three martial arts. www.lifewritingpodcast.com.