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MAGIC and the “90-Day Love Diet”
Let me connect the MAGIC Formula” habits to the “90-Day Love Diet”, starting on Saturday. Hopefully, its clear that the Diet itself.
Map or Model: The plan itself flows from Strategic Intervention technology, modeling couples who have been passionately married for 20–50 years.
Action: The daily action will start with the Blessing Dance, and then at least 5X a day (piggybacking on the 5 Minute Miracle) think what I can do to make Tananarive feel loved and worshipped. And yes, the term “worship” is very carefully chosen. She represents the Divine Feminine in my life.
Gratitude: I have to flood myself in gratitude to have her in my life multiple times a day to have the energy to give to her. Draw it from every corner of my universe.
Intention: For Tananarive to feel more loved, appreciated, desired and supported than she ever has in her life. And in the process to discover HOW to draw that forth from myself.
Confidence and Courage: This requires me to ask what the fear is. Rejection? Being taken advantage of? Losing control? The repeat of some past negative pattern? The answer to all of these is to have COURAGE and CONFIDENCE that I can 100% handle my shit. I will survive. No matter what happens, I will take care of myself, that my own self-love and survival instinct is on “unconscious competence.” My “needy, wounded, abandoned child” is safe in his Father’s arms. That I am, in fact, bonding more deeply with his Mommy.