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Protecting Your Inner Child
We too should make ourselves empty, that the great soul of the universe may fill us with its breath. — Laurence Binyon
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Sifu Carl Totton advised that I change one of my habit patterns. In alignment with seeking longevity, he suggested that I not visualize myself becoming very old, but instead visualize myself connecting to the “Child” personae. I suppose that’s what some call “Youthing.” It’s definitely an interesting practice, and I understand the psychology: you can’t “not think of a purple cow” but you CAN easily “think of a yellow tree”…which functionally is the same thing, but much more effective.
What are the warning signs of a lack of a healthy connection to this part of yourself?
- Lack of emotional energy.
- Lack of creativity. Children live close to their dream-time, and that’s all you need to access endless ideas and brainstorming.
- No drive for physical motion. A baby that doesn’t crawl, taste, explore its space is of concern.
- Lack of self-protective instinct. if you have ANY hesitation in the arena of self-protection, you need to start here.
- Lack of self-love. The natural human protective/adoration instinct toward helpless children is innate. If you don’t feel it, someone hurt you. As simple as that. You are still carrying that damage with you.
- Lack of that “genius spark”. All genius is, in this sense, is the capacity to focus your enthusiasm on…