In coaching, it seems that about 98% of ordinary human problems can be seen as imbalances of male/female or adult/child energies or the balance of love and fear. To see these dualities is critical to understanding many things, but to LIVE in them, to be incapable of seeing their artificiality is to be trapped by concepts and languaging, Here’s an example.


I recently published a quote by an Incel criticizing a woman’s art, and stating that she should want to meet him, as he is a wonderful alpha male. Roundly mocked by most on my thread, one reader said the following: