Resolving Dualities

Steven Barnes
5 min readMay 8, 2019

In coaching, it seems that about 98% of ordinary human problems can be seen as imbalances of male/female or adult/child energies or the balance of love and fear. To see these dualities is critical to understanding many things, but to LIVE in them, to be incapable of seeing their artificiality is to be trapped by concepts and languaging, Here’s an example.

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I recently published a quote by an Incel criticizing a woman’s art, and stating that she should want to meet him, as he is a wonderful alpha male. Roundly mocked by most on my thread, one reader said the following:

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Steven Barnes

Steven Barnes is a NY Times bestselling author, ecstatic husband and father, and holder of black belts in three martial arts. www.lifewritingpodcast.com.