“We Never Guess, We Look It Up”

People often say: “I want to model you, Steve”

Well, that’s fine for the top three arenas. Relationships? I genuinely love my family, and have been happily married to my Soulmate for 23 years.

Martial Arts? In some ways, sure. I genuinely went through the mill. But I don’t know what your goals are. If it is to be Billy Jack or Bruce Lee, you might look elsewhere. If you want to be confident, master your fear, have excellent energy and health…maybe so. Danny Inosanto would be a lot better, wouldn’t he?

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Steven Barnes is a NY Times bestselling author, ecstatic husband and father, and holder of black belts in three martial arts. www.lifewritingpodcast.com.

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Steven Barnes

Steven Barnes is a NY Times bestselling author, ecstatic husband and father, and holder of black belts in three martial arts. www.lifewritingpodcast.com.